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I Started Bedazzling My Vapes and Now I Get the Obsession

I Started Bedazzling My Vapes and Now I Get the Obsession

I did not start bedazzling because I had some grand plan to become a rhinestone person. I bought stones, glue and a few little tools because I wanted to make one of my vapes cuter, and somehow that turned into me looking at almost everything I own and wondering whether it needs crystals. Apparently this is how hobbies happen.

My first projects were mostly me trying to figure out how rhinestones even work on objects that were never designed to have anything glued to them. I knew I liked the look of fully bedazzled things, but actually sitting down with loose stones made me realize there is a lot more decision-making involved than “put sparkles on it.” What size stones should I use? Do I follow the shape of the object or create my own pattern? How close should everything be? What do I do when I get to a curve, a button or a screen? And how do people make those elaborate designs look intentional when I’m over here feeling accomplished because I made a straight line?

I’m still learning all of that, but I also understand the obsession now. There is something extremely satisfying about taking an ordinary object, spending way too much time staring at tiny rhinestones and ending up with something that looks completely different when you’re finished.

Disclosure: This article is for adults 21 and older. Some links in this post are affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase through them, at no extra cost to you. Any cannabis products shown are legal adult-use products from my personal collection, and all opinions are my own.

My First Bedazzled Vape Was Mostly About Getting the Stones On Straight

One of my first real projects was a purple Select Briq (shown above). It already had a shape and color I liked, so instead of trying to create some complicated design, I concentrated on covering the body neatly and working around the parts of the device that still needed to remain usable.

At that point, straight rows felt safe to me. I could understand them. Start at one edge, keep everything reasonably aligned and work my way across. The harder part was figuring out what happened when the surface stopped behaving like a flat piece of paper. Vapes have curves, seams, screens and little areas where a perfectly straight row suddenly does not fit anymore.

That was probably my first lesson in why bedazzling looks easier on Instagram than it feels when you actually have tweezers in your hand. You’re not only placing rhinestones. You’re constantly making tiny decisions about spacing and direction, and one slightly strange gap can become the only thing you see once you notice it. I still liked the finished vape, though, and that was enough to make me want to keep going.

Then I Started Understanding Why Rhinestone Sizes Matter

Before I started doing this, stone sizes were basically meaningless numbers to me. SS6, SS10, SS12 and everything in between sounded like information for people who already knew what they were doing.

Once I started actually placing them, the reason for having different sizes made a lot more sense. Larger rhinestones cover space quickly and make a project feel dramatic, but they are not always going to fit neatly around curves or into the little gaps that appear between rows. Smaller stones give you more control in those awkward areas and make it easier to fill space without forcing a big stone somewhere it clearly does not belong.

That also changed the way I look at other people’s work. What initially looks like a perfectly uniform surface usually has much more going on when you look closely. There may be several stone sizes working together, especially around edges and curves, and that is part of what makes the finished design look dense instead of leaving obvious holes.

I’m still figuring out which sizes I naturally reach for the most, but I stopped thinking I needed one perfect rhinestone size for an entire project. Mixing them when the shape calls for it has made much more sense. Once I get this figured out, I’ll start organizing a premium collection with better rhinestones.

The Lookah Bear Made Me Think More About Composition

The green Lookah Bear vape battery was a different problem because it already has so much personality before you touch it. There are ears, a face, a screen and several different shapes competing for attention, so covering the entire thing in one identical rhinestone treatment would have been a very different project from doing a simple vape body. This is also where I started thinking more about composition, even though that word sounded much fancier than what I felt like I was doing.

For me, composition has really just meant deciding where I want your eye to go when you look at the finished piece. If every single surface is covered with the same stone in the same way, the entire thing can start blending together. Using different stones or leaving certain areas alone can make the existing shape of the object part of the design instead of something I am trying to hide.

I’m definitely still learning that part. I’m not someone who can sit down and casually sketch an elaborate rhinestone pattern from memory, and that used to make me feel like I was limited to rows forever. I’m starting to realize I don’t have to begin with a complicated drawing. I can work with the shape that is already there, choose a few places I want to emphasize and let the design develop from that. As evidenced from the photo, I’m still working out how I want my Lookah Bear finished product to be.

My MWAH Vape and Lip Glosses Is Where It Started Feeling More Like My Style

When I customized my pink MWAH It’s Giving Guava vape, I did not want to cover the entire thing. The original device already looks like a lip gloss tube, and the pink body is a huge part of why I liked it in the first place. Covering every inch in rhinestones would have taken away the part of the design that made me want it.

Instead, I added pink and AB rhinestones along the bottom and made a charm with gold hardware, glitter cherries, butterflies, pearls, a heart lock and an ASHJANE bead strand. The rhinestones became an accent instead of the entire object.

That project probably feels the most like where I want my bedazzling to go because it looks customized without losing what the original product was. I still wanted someone to look at it and immediately recognize It’s Giving Guava. I just wanted mine to look different from everyone else’s. I also wrote a full review of the actual vape in my MWAH It’s Giving Guava review, because the fact that I covered part of it in rhinestones has absolutely nothing to do with whether the cannabis inside is good.

B7000 Has Been My Starting Glue, but I’m Still Experimenting

The bedazzling kit I bought came with B7000 glue, so that’s what I’ve been using while I learn. It has held my rhinestones well so far, but once I started researching adhesives more closely, I found that B7000 isn’t necessarily everyone’s first choice for rhinestone projects. Other options that come up often are Aleene’s adhesives and Gem-Tac, so once I finish the B7000 I already have, I want to try something different and see what actually works better for me.

The bigger learning curve so far has been the application itself. Too much glue can spread beyond the stones and leave you trying to clean around tiny crystals, while too little creates the obvious problem of stones not staying where you put them. I’m getting better at applying a smaller amount to the section I’m actively working on instead of covering a large area and then racing to place everything before the glue starts setting.

I’m especially curious to see whether another adhesive gives me more control, dries cleaner or makes placement easier. I’m not at the point where I can tell anyone which rhinestone glue is “best” because I’ve only used B7000 myself. I’d rather finish what I have, test the alternatives and then compare them based on my own projects instead of repeating somebody else’s recommendation.

The Hardest Part for Me Has Been Designs

Placing rhinestones is not really the part that intimidates me anymore. Deciding what the hell I’m going to do with them is. I can follow a straight line. I can work around an edge. I can fill a section. What I’m learning now is how to move beyond that without turning every project into a random collection of sparkly things.

I used to think people who made elaborate bedazzled designs must be able to draw really well or somehow see the entire finished pattern in their heads before they started. Maybe some of them can, but I’m finding other ways to practice. I can start with a focal area, repeat a shape, use the natural lines of the object or work with a limited group of stone sizes and colors. That gives me enough structure to make decisions without requiring me to suddenly develop an entirely different artistic skill set.

It has also helped to stop judging every project against people who have been doing this for years. I can see things in my first projects that I would place differently now, but that is kind of the point. If everything looked perfect the first time, there would not be much to learn.

I Also Started Seeing Bedazzled Everything

One slightly ridiculous side effect of starting this hobby is that I suddenly notice rhinestones everywhere. Phone cases, bags, shoes, tumblers, makeup packaging, headphones, gaming accessories and random household objects all apparently became potential projects overnight. Some of that is probably because once your brain becomes interested in something, you start noticing examples that were always around you. Some of it is also social media realizing exactly what you stopped scrolling for and deciding you need 300 more versions of it.

It has made me much more interested in customizing things I already own instead of automatically looking for something new when I want a different look. Now I can look at something plain and start thinking about how I could make it feel more like mine.

That is probably the part of bedazzling I did not expect to enjoy as much as I do. The rhinestones are fun, obviously, but I like the process of turning an object into my version of it.

What I’d Do Differently If I Were Starting Again

I would buy a mix of rhinestone sizes and colors earlier instead of assuming I could make one size work everywhere. I would also spend more time thinking about which parts of an object need to remain functional before I start gluing anything. Screens, charging ports, seams, buttons and removable pieces can make a gorgeous idea extremely annoying if you realize halfway through that you covered something you actually need.

I would also stop trying to make every row perfect before moving on. Precision matters, but obsessing over one stone for ten minutes usually does not magically make the entire project better. Sometimes I need to place it, look at the design as a whole and adjust once I can actually see where the next stones are going.

Mostly, though, I would tell myself that beginner projects are allowed to look like beginner projects. I’m already making different choices than I made on the first vape, and that is much more useful than waiting until I somehow feel qualified enough to start.

I’m Definitely Not Done Bedazzling Things

At this point, I have enough rhinestones, charms and ideas floating around that the question is less whether I’m going to keep doing this and more what I’m going to attack next.

I already know I want to customize the top of my pink Santa Cruz Shredder at some point. I like the grinder exactly as it is functionally, but a plain black lid sitting on top of that bright pink body is practically inviting me to interfere with it. I also want to keep experimenting with projects that are not vapes because I don’t want bedazzling to become one extremely specific hobby where I eventually own twelve sparkling devices and nothing else.

For now, though, I’m enjoying being new at it. I’m still learning which stones I like, how to make designs feel intentional and how much glue is too much glue, but the finished pieces already feel more personal than the things I started with. And yes, now I look around my house and wonder what else needs rhinestones.

Try out some bedazzling! It’s been the best hobby I’ve tried so far. 

The Fresh Juice Combos I Tried My First Time Juicing

The Fresh Juice Combos I Tried My First Time Juicing

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I’ve wanted a juicer for a long time. Like… a long time. But I never actually committed to buying one. It was one of those “this would be nice” ideas that I kept talking about but never followed through on. Then my partner got me one because I kept mentioning it over and over again. After I got it, I only let it sit in the box for two days. That is actually very good for me. I usually let new appliances marinate in their packaging for weeks before I emotionally prepare to open them. But this time, I did it.

Putting it together was slightly chaotic because it’s my first juicer and I had no idea what I was doing. There were parts. There were locks. There were angles. After a little help from my partner, we finally got it set up. And then it was time for recipe research. I knew I wanted to keep it simple so I wouldn’t overwhelm myself and never use it again. So I picked two juicing recipes from a Pinterest image and went for it.

Pineapple, Green Apple, Cucumber, Celery, Lemon & Ginger

This one? I absolutely loved! The tanginess of the pineapple mixed with the sweetness and slight tartness of the green apple balanced out the celery and cucumber perfectly. The ginger and lemon gave it a subtle kick without overpowering everything. It tasted fresh. Bright. Not grassy. And even more fun, I grabbed the lemon from our apartment complex lemon tree and that made me feel like a legitimate juicer. After juicing, I added a little turmeric and stirred it in thoroughly. With the ingredients I had, I ended up making about five small bottles. This one is definitely in rotation for the next few weeks!

Orange, Carrot, Ginger & Turmeric

I love carrots and I love oranges. Together? Hmm, I just don’t know. Something about it didn’t hit the way I expected. While juicing, I realized carrots don’t actually give a ton of juice unless you use a lot of them. So I probably needed way more carrots to balance the orange instead of letting the orange dominate. It tasted like tangy orange juice with a noticeable carrot undertone. I didn’t really taste the ginger, and I might have added a little too much turmeric. It wasn’t terrible… it just wasn’t exciting.

This one needs to be workshopped. Next week I’ll probably add pineapple or apple to sweeten it and round it out. We’re in experimentation mode and I’ll definitely keep you looped in once I figure out the sweet spot for this recipe!

The pineapple combo is technically supposed to be a “detox” juice, and the carrot one is marketed as a “glow” juice. I’m not chasing miracles. I just want to feel a little bit better. A little lighter. A little more intentional. I have a lot of trips this year and I want to feel good in my body. That’s it. Just small shifts.

If you’ve been thinking about juicing, my first time honestly wasn’t bad at all. If you want to start with something beginner-friendly, I really love the juicer that was gifted to me. It’s been easy to use so far and the juice quality is actually impressive. I’ll share a full review once I’ve had it longer, but first impressions are strong. If you are curious about the juicer I use, you can check out a similar one here! (Unfortunately, my original one is sold out but once it’s back in stock I’ll update the link!)

This isn’t a cleanse. It’s not a challenge. It’s just me trying to feel a little better without overhauling my entire life. If you’ve been thinking about juicing, start simple. It was a fun thing to do and I’m excited to try new recipes! 

Why NUWU Cannabis Courtyard Is My Favorite Place to Smoke in Vegas

Why NUWU Cannabis Courtyard Is My Favorite Place to Smoke in Vegas

I must admit, starting my weed journey in a place like Vegas, where cannabis is legal and accepted, has been one of the best parts of my story with this plant. Being a Black woman who gets to explore weed openly and without fear is something I never take for granted. A lot of people who look like me don’t get to do that. And many of us are still sitting in jail for the same thing that others are out here making money off of. That’s always been hard for me to sit with.

I don’t know exactly how I want to show up in that conversation yet. I’m still figuring out what advocacy looks like for me and how to use my voice in a way that feels honest. But even while I’m figuring it out, I’m always thankful that I get to have these experiences at all.

One place that’s been a big part of that is NUWU Cannabis Dispensary. It’s Pauite-owned and located on tribal land, which means they have their own rules. That’s how they were able to open a cannabis tasting room lounge before anyone else. I remember how excited I was when it first opened. I think I went three or four times before COVID hit, and they had to close it down. It wasn’t super fancy or curated or anything like that. But it felt right. It felt like somewhere I could chill and smoke without it being a big deal. And that meant something to me.

 

Nuwu Cannabis Tasting Room

Post-COVID: A Backyard Vibe Like No Other with Nuwu Cannabis

After COVID, when things started feeling a little safer and I was ready to be back outside, I already knew where I wanted to go first. NUWU had always felt like a safe and easy place to be, so I was curious to see what they did with the space. And when I say they upgraded, I mean they really did it.

They built out this whole backyard-style Courtyard behind the dispensary. It’s outdoor, chill, and feels like someone turned a regular smoking session into an actual experience. There’s a dab bar, a whole drink menu with canna-cocktails, and an area to buy pre-rolls and flower just for on-site use. The staff will light it for you if you need help, but let me go ahead and say this now — bring your own lighter. Otherwise you’re going to be up and down the whole time asking for one. If you’re already relaxed and halfway into your joint, you’re not going to want to keep getting up. Just toss one in your bag.

The sun out there? Hot. I mean hot. Vegas doesn’t play when it comes to heat, and the Courtyard is an outdoor setup. I still love it, but if you’re thinking of going around noon or early afternoon, dress accordingly. Shade is limited and you’ll be sweating through your outfit in minutes if you’re not prepared. I usually try to go late afternoon when the sun’s starting to calm down or bring layers if I plan to stay a while.

The whole setup gives you room to breathe. You can sit, chat, sip a drink, and just relax. There’s music playing, people around, but it never feels overwhelming. It just feels easy. If you’re someone who’s ever wished weed could be more social without it turning into a scene, this is that.

Nuwu Cannabis Courtyard
Nuwu Cannabis Courtyard

Inside the Nuwu Cannabis Shop and the Sky Lounge Upstairs

Right next to the Courtyard is the regular NUWU dispensary. This is where you can shop for your usual flower, carts, edibles, and everything else. The setup is big and smooth. It never feels like you’re being rushed, and I’ve always had good convos with some of the budtenders when I had questions or just wanted to try something new. Whether you’re picking up for home or looking for a vibe, you’ll find what you need there.

Upstairs is the Sky Lounge. I was able to go during one of their 420 celebrations, and I’m really glad I did. It has a more curated feel compared to the backyard. You go up and it’s like, okay, we’re doing cannabis luxury now. The Sky Lounge has its own menu and a whole different atmosphere. You can order and smoke up there, but the coolest part? If you hit a bong during your session, you have the option to buy it and take it home. I thought that was such a smart idea. It’s perfect for someone visiting or even locals who want a souvenir that’s not cheesy.

The Sky Lounge also hosts events. Some are themed, some are more relaxed, but it’s worth checking their calendar if you’re planning a visit. It’s not just a smoke spot, it’s more like an experience. If the Courtyard is where you go to kick back and feel the sun, the Sky Lounge is where you go to feel a little elevated and enjoy your weed in a different way.

I’ve added a picture below of the old Tasting Room setup which I’m sure probably improved from then!

Nuwu Tasting Room Old Setup

Getting To Nuwu Cannabis and the Drive-Thru Setup

Nuwu Cannabis Drive-Thru

   If you’re thinking about going to NUWU, I really recommend just taking an Uber or Lyft. It makes everything easier, especially if you plan to smoke or sip while you’re there. You don’t want to be worrying about driving after. That said, if you do decide to drive, they’ve got plenty of parking. It’s not one of those tight lots where you’re circling forever. You can pull in, find a spot, and chill. Just be smart about it. Don’t have open containers, don’t smoke in the car, and definitely don’t bring kids. Everyone in the car needs to be 21 and up, they don’t play about that.

And now for one of my favorite parts , NUWU has a drive-thru. Yes, a drive-thru for weed. You can literally roll up and get your order from your car (remember everyone 21 and up in the car!). It’s quick and super convenient, especially if you’re on the go or just don’t feel like going inside. But you do have to order ahead. Don’t just show up expecting to browse through the window like it’s fast food. Go online, place your order, and make sure you have your ID ready when you get there. I’ve used the drive-thru a few times when I just needed to re-up but didn’t want the full Courtyard or lounge experience. It’s efficient, but still feels like NUWU welcoming and no stress.

If you’re ever in Vegas and want a different kind of cannabis experience, NUWU is the spot. It feels personal. It feels rooted. And it’s not trying to be a scene. Between the backyard Courtyard, the Sky Lounge upstairs, and even the drive-thru, it gives you options to enjoy the plant the way that works for you.

They also host events in the Sky Lounge and sometimes in the backyard. If you want to check that out for your trip, I’ll link the event calendar below. I’m also adding links to the Sky Lounge menu and the Courtyard drink menu so you can plan your vibe before you go.

And bring a lighter and a portable fan. Just do it. You can checkout their website here! Cheers!

Nuwu Cannabis Courtyard

Heated Weighted Blanket Review (Warm + Calming Cozy Night Upgrade)

Heated Weighted Blanket Review (Warm + Calming Cozy Night Upgrade)

This heated weighted blanket has been my favorite warm and calming cozy night upgrade, especially on cold nights when I want to relax without turning the heat all the way up. If you’ve been looking for a heated weighted blanket that feels comforting and actually makes your bed or couch time cozier, this is the vibe. Listen… I am not built for being cold. Like if my feet or arms are freezing, my whole mood is ruined.

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Why I wanted a heated weighted blanket

I’ve had a regular heated blanket before and I’ve tried weighted blankets before, but I wanted something that could do both. I wanted warmth that feels cozy without making me sweaty, and weight that feels calming without making me feel trapped. This is especially for those nights when you’re tired, overstimulated, and you just want to feel settled without doing anything extra.

What it actually feels like (in real life)

The best way I can describe it is… it feels like your blanket is doing its job extra hard. You get that comforting weight on top of you, but the heat makes it feel like you’re wrapped up in the coziest little cocoon. It’s giving: I’m safe, I’m warm, don’t ask me for anything.

What I love about this heated weighted blanket

  • It warms you up fast enough to change your mood

You know how being cold makes you irritated for no reason? Yeah. This fixes that. It doesn’t take forever to feel the warmth, which is the whole point because I’m not trying to suffer first and get cozy later.

  • The weight makes it feel calming

I’m not about to act like a blanket cures anxiety, but I will say the weight helps me feel calmer at night. It’s like my body finally unclenches and remembers we’re allowed to relax.

  • It’s perfect for couch nights too

This is not just a “sleep” blanket. This is a “put on a show, scroll your phone, and ignore everyone” blanket. It makes the couch feel like a whole experience, not just somewhere you’re sitting.

  • It helps me stay warm without blasting the heater

Turning up the heat every night feels disrespectful to my bank account. This gives me cozy warmth without running my bill up like I’m living in a mansion.

Who I recommend this for

If you’ve been searching for a heated weighted blanket for cold nights, cozy sleep, or warm couch time, this is for you. It’s also perfect if you want something that feels comforting and calming but still practical.

One thing to know before you buy

Because it’s a weighted blanket, it’s heavier than a regular heated throw. That’s the point, but I’m saying it upfront. If you love super light blankets that barely touch you, you might not love the weighted part. Me personally? I like feeling tucked in and held, so it’s perfect.

Final thoughts

This is one of those purchases that makes your nights better without you having to do anything extra. It’s warm, calming, cozy, and it makes staying in feel like self-care.

And if you’re building the full cozy setup, my strawberry candle warmer lamp is another favorite upgrade for warm vibes without a flame. You can read more about it here!

In the mood for a heated blanket? Check out the exact heated weighted blanket I bought! You would not regret it!

Hands-Free Kindle Holder + Page Turner for Bed (My Coziest Reading Setup)

Hands-Free Kindle Holder + Page Turner for Bed (My Coziest Reading Setup)

If you’ve been looking for a hands-free Kindle holder with page turner so you can read in bed without holding your Kindle the whole time, this setup is for you. I bought a Kindle holder stand + remote page turner and it’s honestly one of the best cozy purchases I’ve made. Like I can stay under the blanket, keep my hands warm, and still flip pages without touching the screen. It’s giving lazy genius and I’m not going back.

Quick take: If you read in bed a lot, this is an instant quality-of-life upgrade.

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Why I bought a hands-free Kindle holder with page turner

I love a cozy reading night, but holding a Kindle gets annoying fast, especially when:

  • my hands get tired after like… 20 minutes
  • I’m laying on my side and it starts feeling awkward
  • I don’t feel like building a pillow fort just to be comfortable
  • I’m trying to stay warm under the covers and not move

This is one of those “small things” that changes the whole vibe.

This is the same kind of cozy upgrade as my strawberry candle warmer lamp because it’s small, but it makes the whole vibe better. If you missed that post, you can read it here

What I love about this Kindle holder + page turner combo

1) Reading in bed is actually hands-free

The stand holds your Kindle up at the perfect height, so you’re not gripping it the whole time or constantly shifting around trying to get comfortable. You can actually relax, keep your hands free, and stay in one cozy position without your arms getting tired five minutes in. It’s simple, but it makes reading in bed feel way more effortless.

2) The page turner remote is the best part (no debate)

This is what makes it elite. You click the remote and the page turns. That’s literally it. No reaching, no shifting, no fumbling around trying to tap the screen with frozen hands. If you’re the type who finally gets cozy and then instantly regrets having to move even one inch… you’re going to understand why this feels life-changing.

3) It’s perfect for cozy nights

Low light. Blanket up to your chin. Snack nearby. Your Kindle just sitting there perfectly in front of you like your own personal reading screen. It feels so extra in the best way, like you upgraded your whole bedtime routine without even trying. I’m telling you… it’s giving luxury.

4) It’s also great outside of bed

This setup is perfect for reading on the couch, reading while you’re eating, reading when your wrists are tired, or winding down before bed basically anytime you want to read without holding your Kindle the whole time.

Does this work for Kobo or other e-readers?

The stand part usually works for other e-readers too (like Kobo or Nook) as long as your device fits the clamp size.

The only thing I’d double-check before buying is:

  • the width/size of your device (some Kobo models may be wider)
  • the weight (bigger screens can feel heavier)
  • whether the page turner is compatible with your screen

Most page turner remotes work by “tapping” the screen to turn pages, so compatibility can depend on the device and settings. If you have a larger e-reader, just check the measurements before ordering so you don’t waste your money.

Who I recommend this setup for

If you’ve been searching for any of these:

  • hands-free Kindle holder with page turner
  • Kindle holder stand for bed
  • Kindle page turner remote
  • best Kindle accessories for reading in bed
  • how to read Kindle without holding it

…this is exactly that and for you!

Final thoughts

If you read in bed a lot, this hands-free Kindle holder + page turner setup is genuinely worth it. It’s one of those small upgrades that makes your whole night routine easier because you can stay cozy, keep your hands warm, and still turn pages without doing all that extra movement.

👉 Here’s the exact one I bought:  Hands-free kindle holder + page turner for bed

Best Candle Warmer Lamp With Timer + Dimmable Light (My Cozy Bedroom Upgrade 🍓)

Best Candle Warmer Lamp With Timer + Dimmable Light (My Cozy Bedroom Upgrade 🍓)

This candle warmer lamp with timer is one of my favorite cozy bedroom upgrades lately. It melts candles evenly, makes the room feel warm and cute, and I don’t have to babysit a flame. If you’ve been searching for the best candle warmer lamp that gives strong scent throw without an open flame, let me put you on.

I love candles, but I’m not always in the mood to babysit a wick, especially at night when I’m winding down. This warmer makes the room feel warm and cute, the candle smell actually fills the space, and I can just set it and relax.

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Why I wanted a candle warmer lamp in the first place

I’m a candle person. I want my room to smell good especially when I wind down with a joint or two after work. I want the vibe.

But I don’t always want to burn a candle, especially when:

  • I’m winding down at night
  • I’m cleaning or doing stuff around the apartment
  • I know I’m gonna get sleepy
  • I just want cozy light without the extra worry

A candle warmer gives the vibe without the flame. Simple. If you’re building the ultimate cozy night setup, you’ll probably love my hands-free Kindle holder + page turner too it makes reading in bed so much easier. Read about it here

Why I love this candle warmer lamp with timer

  1. Timer = I don’t have to think This is the main reason I love it. I can turn it on, set the timer, and relax. No “did I blow the candle out?” panic.
  2. Dimmable light = instant cozy mood lighting I’m not trying to sit under bright lights at night. I like my space calm and warm. The dimmer makes it feel like a cute little lamp moment.
  3. It makes candles last longer Because you’re not burning down the wick the same way, you can stretch your candles longer than usual. I’m always trying to be better with money, so yes… I love that.
  4. It’s decor Some candle warmers look like gadgets. This one actually looks like something I’d keep on my nightstand.

The strawberry design is quirky but there are other colors too

I went with the strawberry because I like things that feel a little fun and different. It’s cute, it’s quirky, and it makes me happy to look at. If you’ve been wanting a candle warmer lamp with timer for your bedroom or apartment, this one is honestly such a cute upgrade. But if strawberry isn’t your vibe, this warmer comes in other colors/styles too so you can still get the same cozy function without committing to the fruit aesthetic.

Who this is perfect for

If you’ve been searching:

  • best candle warmer lamp
  • candle warmer lamp with timer
  • dimmable candle warmer lamp
  • candle warmer lamp for bedroom
  • candle warmer lamp for jar candles this is for you.

Especially if you want your room to smell good but you don’t always want an open flame going.

My honest thoughts

This candle warmer lamp with timer has officially become part of my night routine. Like it’s one of those things I turn on and immediately feel like “okay… we’re home and we’re relaxing now.” The timer and dimmable light make it feel effortless, and the strawberry design is quirky in the cutest way.

If you’ve been considering a candle warmer, this is a great option to start with. Here’s the exact one I bought: Candle warmer lamp with timer + dimmable light (strawberry design) 

Cozy Apartment Reset for Winter

Cozy Apartment Reset for Winter

Every year when the air changes, my apartment starts feeling heavier. The windows stay shut, the days grow shorter, and everything starts to blend. Before I know it, I’m walking around in my robe, wondering why my place feels like a cave. This usually happens at this time, with the seasonal depression coming around. That’s when I know it’s time for a reset, not the scrub-the-baseboards kind, but a mood shift. A cozy reset that makes my space feel like a soft landing again and gets me through this winter!

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Reset the Air

First step: clear the energy. I keep my AIRROMI air purifier running almost every day in the winter. It’s quiet, looks cute in green, and somehow makes the air feel lighter, which is remarkable, but true. Once the air feels clean, I take out my favorite candles. I’m not trying to babysit flames anymore, so I started using this super chic candle warmer lamp. The warmer emits that same soft glow and slowly melts whatever scent I’m obsessed with that week. Right now, it’s the now-discontinued White T-shirt candle from Bath and Body Works (PLEASE BRING IT BACK, I ONLY HAVE 1 MORE LEFT!). It makes my space smell warm and soft without trying too hard.

Warm Up While Hanging Out

Instead of that big “blanket warmer” everyone talks about (which, don’t get me wrong, I love), I grabbed a heated hoodie that is my lifesaver when I need a warm smoke break and drink. It’s a cute strawberry-themed plush hoodie, and it looks way more intentional than those stiff, heated blankets that scream “utility.” I’ll curl up under it when I’m working or watching something mindless, and it genuinely feels like being tucked inside a cloud.

Lighting matters too. I prefer warm, layered lighting, with lamps over overheads, candles over LEDs – always cozy but never bright. If you can find a mini space heater that doesn’t compromise your vibe, go for it! I’m still deciding on my favorite mini space heater, but this one is a great one to start with!

Little Luxuries That Change Everything

My “cozy reset” always ends with something that smells good and feels good. After a shower, I mix Brown Sugar Babe body oil with Taraji P. Henson’s Anything Glows Vanilla oil and stand there, glowing, as if I have my life together. It’s not about self-care checklists; it’s just a moment where everything slows down.

Then I roll up, make tea (sometimes regular, sometimes infused), and throw on a playlist that feels like golden hour, melting into the night. Cozy isn’t about buying new things; it’s about making what you already have feel like peace.

By the time I finish, my apartment smells like calm, my skin’s glowing, and my brain finally slows down. It’s simple stuff, but it changes everything. A cozy reset isn’t about perfection; it’s just a reminder that your space should love you back.